FAQ

Here are some questions no one has asked: 

• Why are you doing this? If you look under the menu options, you'll see "Profiles from Hell." I believe this might answer the question. I'm weary and want to believe there are still really good men out there. I'm hoping he might be wondering where I am, too. This is where you come in, dear reader. :) 
• Do you have kids?  I do not, but I love kids and would welcome yours.
• Do you have a deep love for Celine Dion?  Yes. Yes I do.
• Would you be open to dating a Bama fan? I would have to pray and fast over this one.
• Are you open to moving? I am. However, I love Knoxville and would love to stay if possible, but moving isn't a dealbreaker. 
• Why do you think past relationships haven't worked? I haven't dated a ton. After my broken engagement in my twenties, I threw myself into college ministry. I really only started dating about four years ago, and let's just say I was very naive. I learned about areas where I was really weak. I found it difficult to face the reality of who a person actually was versus who I wanted them to be. I've dated men who didn't want a relationship, but more companionship. I've dated men who were divorced and never-married. I've dated men who should now be eunuchs. 
• What's wrong with you? Hmmm.....I believe that's an underlying message sent to single people over a certain age. I have plenty "wrong" with me, but I'm also a learner and always trying to grow.
• What do you stand for politically? I don't necessarily align with either party, but I definitely am NOT MAGA.  
• Do you cook? I do. I love baking more.
• Are you affectionate? I grew up in a family that wasn't affectionate, even though my little sister loves a good long lingering hug. However, I am super affectionate with the people I date.
• Does the dog sleep in the bed? Nope. Gibbe Wayland is banished to the guest room.
• Do you exercise? I do. I go to OrangeTheory and walk. 
• Do you drink? I don't drink, but I don't mind if you do.
• Are you a homebody or a nomad? I'm not as much of a nomad as I used to be. I like getting out and sharing adventures, going to restaurants, spending time with friends, but I also like being home. It's about balance. 
• What kind of music do you like? Americana (Jason Isbell), The Wailin' Jennys, all kinds of worship music, some country, 80s, Andrew Peterson, Jill Phillips, Drew Holcomb and the Neighbors
• What's your social life like? I have a close circle of friends. I don't go to big parties with 100s of people. We go to movies, the park, and have lots of dinners at each other's houses. I love the occasional concert and definitely college football games.
• Are you part of a church? The last ten years have been a mixed bag with church, but yes, I am newly involved in a local church.
• Are you looking for marriage or companionship? Homegirl wants the whole thing - marriage. 
• What if you meet men but you aren't compatible? I'm going to think through all the single women I know to see who might be a match. 
• What kind of life are you hoping to build with someone? Peaceful, safe, and open to holding up a mirror (not literally ;)) to one another, while still choosing to love and move toward each other. A life where others are welcome, can sit around our table, and find family. I want purpose and meaning. I'm 51, which means I've developed a bent toward myself because of being single for so long. I want to learn to give and sacrifice. Bonus points if you want to go to UT games and kayak with me.